Hey Girl HHHEEEYYY....
Hey Ladies!! How are all of you doing on this beautiful Monday morning? I'm low-key excited to be back blogging. I think I FINALLY have a schedule that works for my lifestyle but you know I've said that at least a million times before. Anywho, I went to a ladies event about two weeks ago hosted by the beautiful JASMINE WILDE and I meant to write this post sooner but here I am now.
I, Ramaiseya, lover of EVERYTHING women, used to be THAT woman that cringed being around too many women. I think a lot of it came from shady relationships in high school and just dealing with the typical cattiness that can sometimes come with being a woman. I, over the years developed STRONG female relationships and my love for the beautiful beings that we are came back alive in me.
Fast forward to a few months ago and I found myself in the same predicament as high school, dreading the close interaction of the similar sex. I knew I had to get myself out of this rut because truthfully, my entire brand is built off of loving, encouraging and supporting women. How could I have a brand that supports women when I had barely even been communicating with them as I should.
I was scrolling and saw Jasmine advertise an intimate ladies' night. I needed to just get away mentally from a few things and one thing I know is that a GOOD "ladies night" will clear your entire head and give you an entire new outlook on life, so I messaged Jasmine and told her I was interested. I'm not going to lie, I was low-key nervous about being around this many women at one time. Will they be judgmental? Will they be real? Can I be myself? What have you done Maise? (These were all questions going through my head as I was driving there by the way).
I walked in and instantly felt at peace. A peace amongst other women that had become unfamiliar to me. Real talk y'all, it just feel good being around beautiful, dope women. Being among the women secured my love for US and how much we need each other. We cried! We laughed! We inhaled, exhaled and inhaled all over agin. We talked about men, sex and even relationships. It was such a refresher to be in this moment with these ladies and it solidified why strong relationships with women are sooo important and needed. Life is an unpredictable journey and just having a few moments to "whoosah" in a judgement-free zone can change the entire trajectory of your journey. I'm still so appreciative of that moment and beyond appreciative of those beautiful women for allowing for me to soak up all of their contagious strong, beautiful, unapologetic energy. I plan to attend more events like that as well as host my own.
Take the time to build sincere "sisterships" because when life gets the best of you, it's nothing like a glass of wine, a lot of positivity and some uncensored girl talk with your tribe!