It's All About ME...
It's Wednesday ladies which means it's time for some tough love! This love is all about Y-O-U!!! I'm such an observer so you know this was once again inspired by things I've been seeing! As women, we're so strong! So beautiful! So smart! So powerful! Why do we keep allowing for everyone in the world to come before us and our happiness? I know you're a mom, a student, a wife and Superwoman all combined and everyone is pulling you in every single direction but you have to learn how to set aside time for you baby girl!
I look around and see so many women lost because they haven't taken the necessary steps to truly get to know and love themselves! You can't be who you're supposed to be for anyone if you haven't taken the necessary time needed to find who you really are. One of the reasons I know God has allowed for me to be single for so long is because I hadn't gotten to know Ramaiseya! I hadn't taken the time to see what it was I wanted and needed in a relationship! I was settling for "situation ship" after "situation ship", not really focusing on what I wanted, just trying to fill a void that could, in the end, only be filled by ME!
We can try to replace it with "situation ships", stuff, food, or whatever but they're not going to put together the missing piece in the puzzle! Replacing it will not fix the broken piece. Stop what you're doing and focus on YOU! Write down what you want in every aspect of your life! From relationships to goals to even what you want to put in your body! Just focus on EVERYTHING YOU! Have some much needed ME time and don't for one second feel guilty about it! Life becomes a lot easier to navigate when you know exactly what it is you want from it!
"Some steps need to be taken alone. It's the only way to really figure out where you need to be!" ~ Mandy Hale